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Approach Anxiety :(
Submitted by StupidMan on Sun, 06/01/2008 - 12:39.
I often get paralyzed with the fear of approaching a women in the bar...it seems once I start talking to a women, when it happens "naturally", I do better than average, but some nights, I can't seem to approach even one woman! It pisses me off, because I have killed my bank account on bar tabs, help me pimps of the world...
It takes some exercise
Submitted by DarMeLegendary on Wed, 06/11/2008 - 18:22.You have to work on yourself, on your internal part..on how you see the world. There are two things that are stopping you to approach women by being relaxed and confident.
Those two things are(even if you didn't know before): 1. negative emotions(you feel when you try to approach) 2. the presence of limiting beliefs(this tell you who you are, what can you accomplish
why you are not enough)
These are the major obstacles. For a quick fix, try the following technique: www.scribd.com/doc/3259726/Approach-Anxiety
Approach Women with Confidence: www.approachanxietycurediscovered.com/GetMoreNow.html
I know it sounds stupid, but
Submitted by IrishLad on Sun, 06/08/2008 - 22:00.I know it sounds stupid, but you need to work on you. You need to work on your confidence. Girls love confident guys. You could be the dumbest fuck or the most arrogant asshole, but if you are confident, most girls will think you are the shit.
One way around the confidence aspect is to have a good wing-man. Someone to play Goose to your Maverick.
Another suggestion is to get a little alcohol into your system to let you relax, but not too much that you sound like an idiot.
These suggestions are really short and generalized, but if you give us some more details about your situation, we can help you better.